God
created human beings with a freewill to make their own decisions in life. He
went to painstaking lengths to ensure that humans had the ability to choose to
love him or choose to serve him.
Why
else would He put two trees in the garden? He did not only put the tree of life
in the Garden, but He also put the tree of the knowledge of good & evil. He
then told Adam not to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, but
that he could eat from any other tree in the garden—including the tree of life.
God
allowed Adam to choose to obey and He allowed him to sin. He even had a plan
for man’s sin from the foundation of the world—otherwise, Jesus would not be
called “the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world” (Rev. 13:8). Jesus was
not an afterthought. He was a predestined plan for the allowance of man to have
the freedom to choose God or to choose sin.
Since
God went to such painstaking lengths to ensure man’s ability to make their own
choices, those in any kind of leadership or place of authority should also
allow for those under them the freedom to make their own choices.
Whether
we are parents or in church leadership or working at an office, we should not
use control, manipulation, or intimidation to warrant a certain outcome from
those under our authority.
This
does not mean, however, that we do not lay down definite rules and guidelines
that we expect to be followed. We must have rules and systems in place for
order and structure in life together as communities. However, we must realize
that those under us have the freedom to obey or disobey. There are always
consequences for disobedience, and there are greater levels of severity to
consequences given the maturity or age of the person (a child or an adult), or
given the frequency and severity of the offense.
However,
one of the reasons that there has been so much conflict over the restoration of
the five-fold ministry is because of the frequent abuse of those in leadership
throughout the history of the church. Not only in the church, but in the world
and in the family as well. So many people have suffered abuse where someone has
taken away their ability to say no and has violated their will and freedom to
make choices.
Because
of the rampant abuse in our society, many people have extensive wounds
regarding authority figures in their lives. As pastors and leaders in the
church, we must learn how to shepherd their hearts and allow their shut-down
voice to be released while still being firm in our leadership and direction.
It is important to have those in
authority so that there is a unified sense of direction. Because of fallen
humanity, anarchism is not an option. Systems and government are a necessary
evil. However, in the church, God is restoring back the value of true
leadership that loves and prefers those under them. We must learn to hold
people with a loose hand, and not be possessive with those under us.
Even when giving guidance or counsel, we
must be careful to allow those receiving it to weigh it and make decisions for
themselves. When giving a prophetic word, we must allow for the person
receiving it to test it and discern the true parts and throw away the extra. It
must not be delivered in such a way that the person thinks they must believe it
and do it or else they are denying God’s will. Also, giving directional words
should be done with great care that the person’s freewill to choose is not infringed
upon. Likewise, when anything is brought in the way of correction, it should be
submitted with love and great prayer, and even anguish from those in
leadership.
When James and John asked Jesus if they
could sit with him in a place of authority, Jesus first addressed the issue of
fellowshipping in His sufferings (Mt. 20, Mk 10). Then as the others were angry
over James and John trying to get ahead, Jesus told them all, “You
know that those who are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them,
and their great ones exercise authority over them. Yet
it shall not be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you
shall be your servant. And
whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all. For
even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His
life a ransom for many” (Mark 10:41-45).
Jesus’ example of leadership was one of servant hood
and laying down His life. Even though He did such an awesome act of love, He
still allows people the freedom to choose Him or to deny the power of the
Cross. He came with such acts of service and humility that we should learn to
follow His model in the way of loving those that we are appointed to serve.
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